'Boss balked at the idea': Manager forces employee to take PTO for the whole day just because he needed to leave five minutes early

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    "Boss griped at the idea of me slipping out of work 5 minutes early"
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    r/ r/MaliciousCompliance Posted by u/Bella4077 Boss griped at the idea of me slipping out of work 5 minutes early to get to an appointment on time. Said I'd need to use a sick or personal day. So I did. S OC
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    For background, my old boss used to be more flexible. As long as we got our tasks done, if something came up and we needed to slip out a few minutes early, they never had much of an issue. I rarely took advantage of it, but if I had to, I always made sure to make up those few minutes elsewhere.
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    This new boss comes along and is such a micromanager and control freak. Now, we are not allowed to be even a minute late or leave a minute early. We need to actually put in for PTO, either for a half or full day, just to be able to slip out a few minutes early. I had an appointment one say and offered to work through my break time just to leave a few minutes early.
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    Boss balked at the idea. I arranged ahead of time for a whole personal day off. I booked myself a massage and went out to lunch before my appointment. Boss wasn't happy with me for taking a personal day, especially since we're currently short-staffed, but I did follow their policy.
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    CptGetchagearoff ⚫ "If you wanna leave 5 min early you need to book a half or full day off" books a day off for appointment Boss: Surprise pikachu tAkinG dAys Off like that iSn,T beiNG a TeaM pLaYeR 105 Reply Share
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    Pegasus2022. I learnt the hard way with my company i used to happy start work early etc, until i had a physio appointment. My manager expect me to travel 40 mins to work for a hour than go back home to my appointment than travel into work once my appointment was done. Yet people who live locally were allowed to go home after their appointments. I now start work when i am meant to if i need to start earlier than i get that off the same day. 100 Reply Share
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    SnakesCatsAndDogs. Today I told my boss that I had to run across the street for a blood test and then I would be back to finish up my last half hour (I wfh) and he responded by saying it was safer to drive across the street than to run. I got dad joked 87 Reply Share
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    msdiggz. I once worked for a small company where the owner was my boss. My start time was 8 and I usually showed up at about 5 til and was never late. He insisted that I should be there at 7:45 every day but would not pay me for that extra time. I continued to arrive at my regular time and one day he started yelling at me for arriving late. I wasn't but he had changed the clock to be 15 minutes behind. I continued to arrive at the actual time and just told him the real time when he mentioned it
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    YourWiseOldFriend⚫ Except for work environments where availability requires the employee to be right on time every time, no job -none-, is so important that you can't slip in 5 minutes up or down.
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    JohnNDenver. I had a friend that started working for a company after contracting with them for a while. He had a doctor's appointment coming up so he worked extra the days before so he wouldn't have to take the time off his weekly work. Nope. The next day he got called into a meeting with his manager and HR to explain that just because he worked extra earlier didn't mean that he could "bank" that time and use it for his appointment. He said, "Oh, okay. I guess I made a mistake taking this job. T
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    Woollyprimate What is up with bosses balking over 5 minutes? Seriously. Are they on glue or what? I hate petty micromanagers like that. 8.1k Reply Share
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    I_Have_Questions95. Forreal. I'm taking classes while working full time (current job is entirely unrelated to my field of study). One of my classes means I'll be roughly 30 minutes late twice a week for 5 months. I checked in with my boss regarding the lateness before I enrolled and he just goes "Ooh cool what class is is?" Like, zero given, just down for me continuing my education. 2.5k Reply Share
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    jlb183. I once put in an official PTO request to leave about an hour early for a doctor appointment for a chronic condition that has to be managed. My manager responded that she'd have to see how busy we were that day,so basically a no. I hadn't wanted to go through the trouble of getting FMLA certified, just because I wasn't going to do all that paperwork if I didn't have to. But after that refusal, I had to. It was no problem getting intermittent FMLA approved, and after that I could go to any
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    algy888 Him: "You should only have taken half a day since we need you." OP: (shrug) "If you needed me that bad you could have had me the whole day and just let me shift part of my break to the end of the day. I think you're the one that chose poorly." 1.1k Reply Share
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    Mrben13. At my old job I would come in early to empty cardboard hoppers. Which meant my 8 hour day was now 9. One day I need to leave an hour early, still making my day 8 hours and not 9. Supervisor immediately shut it down stating she couldn't change my hours. You don't have to change my hours I'm still working 8 hours. I got to thinking about it. If I left an hour before the end of my shift I would have been pointed the same amount as if I would of left half way through my shift. I ended up le
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    MM_in_MN I don't understand the need to be such a clock watcher that 5- 10 min here/ there needs to be scrutinized so tightly! Especially for a desk job, where you're not 'relieving' someone. Does this manager not have a better way to use their time?! Trust the employees you have hired to be able to self-regulate. Manage it, if it becomes a problem. Otherwise, trust that the adults you've hired to do a job, is in fact, doing that job, even if it means leaving 10 min early one day to make it some
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    champagneanddust ⚫ you know what makes me look good as a boss? my team getting I done, and getting it done well. you know what helps them do that? trusting them to be professional and giving them space and autonomy to make their lives work. 232 Reply Share
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    loopytommy This is , I always tell my staff to go 5,10,15,30 mins early, we are having trouble getting staff so I'd rather be out minutes instead of a day. Same with them being sick, take the day or a few off cause then your not spreading it and then I'll have 3 or 5 off next week. 124 Reply Share

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